I'm a thirty-something single Muslim-American woman, looking for love. This blog chronicles my misadventures online, and the sometimes surprising messages I receive in response to my (multiple) profile(s). I do not post these messages with the intention of making fun of anyone, but rather to share my personal experience. Some of the messages are funny, some are sad, some are incredibly sweet. All, however, are written by men who, for better or worse, are notmynaseeb! - Click here to rate, and read more.

Marriage is one the most complex and unique institutions that has been practiced since the dawn of time, in almost every society and culture, and yet it still perplexes the modern man! No matter how much one reads, or how much someone tries there is no perfect formula that can guarantee us the perfect relationship. Nevertheless with "hardship comes ease" (Holy Quran, 94:5) and we must keep trekking for one reason or another - Click here to rate, and read more.

Are you a non-Saudi who married a Saudi? Divorced from a Saudi or widow(er) of a Saudi? Going through the marriage permission process? A non-Saudi engaged to a Saudi? Or just thinking about marrying a Saudi? Are you a bi-cultural or multi-cultural Saudi? Please share your story!

I'm using this blog to talk about issues related to the process of finding a spouse and difficulties that arise and sometimes comical situations that one comes across.

It's not easy trying to find marriage in the west, as a Muslimah. Maybe I can make it one ... step ... easier.